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Our friend and fellow blogger Joe at Retire by 40 took a deep dive into “The Hero’s Journey” in his post, Why Fire Is Such a Compelling Story. He likened the hero’s journey to the path to FIRE (Financial Independence/Retire Early). He created a “chain post” and invited us to join in with a Hero’s Journey post of our own.
You may not be aware of the hero’s journey as such, but you most certainly are familiar with it. The hero’s journey follows an archetypal formula used in many novels, plays, and movies. The formula is analyzed and taught to aspiring fiction writers and screenwriters to inspire them to create compelling stories. The stories are not new. They’re as old as Homer’s Odyssey and Iliad, and all of Shakespeare’s tragedies.
So how does the Groovy Journey stack up against the archetypal hero’s journey? Well, that’s a good question. Because when Joe asked us to participate, we were a bit flummoxed. You see, Mr. Groovy and I don’t feel as if we’ve done anything particularly heroic. We’re just a couple of “ham and eggers” who figure things out as we go along. So, we thought and thought about what hero we could compare ourselves to—and then it dawned on us—The Flintstones.
The Flintstones were a couple of ordinary ham and eggers who lived in prehistoric times. Fred Flintstone was a regular working stiff trying to get ahead and do better for his family. The Flintstones lived next door to their best friends, Barney and Betty Rubble.
So now it’s my turn to tell you about my hero, Mr. Groovy, based on the 12-step blueprint from Christopher Vogler’s book, The Writer’s Journey. Here we go.
Step One: The Ordinary World
Normal life before the adventure begins.
Flintstones:
Fred works at the rock quarry for Mr. Slate and lives with his wife, Wilma, and their daughter, Pebbles, in Bedrock. Day after day he pounds rock and waits for the quitting time whistle so that he can yell YABBA-DABBA-DO and go home to his family.
Groovy Journey:
Mr. Groovy works for a sucky municipality picking up dead animals. He’s tired of the routine but doesn’t know how to change his predicament.
Step Two: The Call to Adventure
Something happens to disrupt ordinary life.
Flintstones:
Fred gets sick and tired of pounding rocks day after day, with nothing to show for it. So he concocts one hair-brained scheme after another to get rich.
Groovy Journey:
Mr. Groovy gets his property tax bill for 2003 and is shocked by a 42% increase. He knows something’s got to change in his life.
Step Three: The Refusal
The hero fears the unknown and is reluctant to change.
Flintstones:
Fred refuses to give up on his hair-brained schemes even though they never work and he gets into trouble with his boss, his wife, and others. A perfect example is when Fred pins his hopes on winning big money at the race track. But he gambles his entire paycheck for the week and loses it.
Groovy Journey:
Mr. Groovy refuses to recognize that while Long Island is an expensive place to live, his financial woes are largely the result of his dumb decisions.
Step Four: Meeting a Mentor
Someone helps the hero overcome his fear. He obtains something that will help on the journey.
Flintstones:
Fred meets The Great Gazoo. Gazoo is a little green man from the planet Zetox who was sent to earth as a punishment. His mission is to act as Fred’s servant and make his dreams come true. Invariably, Gazoo makes matters more complicated for Fred. Still he gives Fred hope that a better life lies ahead.
Groovy Journey:
Mrs. Groovy discovers Dave Ramsey on the radio and introduces Mr. Groovy to Dave’s teachings. Mr. Groovy becomes a nightly Dave Ramsey Show listener and begins reading personal finance books and blogs. He tracks household expenses, figures out where he and Mrs. Groovy are hemorrhaging money, begins a savings plan, and becomes more mindful about spending.
Step Five: Crossing the Threshold
The hero leaves the ordinary world and journeys into the special world.
Flintstones:
Gazoo takes Fred, Wilma, Barney, and Betty into the 25th century to show them the wonders of the space age.
Groovy Journey:
Mr. Groovy convinces Mrs. Groovy that leaving New York would radically change their lives. He devises a three year plan to make their escape from New York to North Carolina. Mr. Groovy begins dreaming about financial independence and thinks just maybe, it’s achievable.
Step Six: Tests, Allies, Enemies
Hero encounters difficulties, helpers, and challenges.
Flintstones:
After watching a James Bondrock movie, Fred and Barney get themselves tangled up in real life intrigue. They are captured and taken to Doctor Sinister’s island where they meet Madam Yes and the evil Doctor Sinister. They execute the “judo chop chop” maneuver just in time to get out of Doctor Sinister’s vile grip.
Groovy Journey:
Friends and coworkers tell Mr. Groovy he’s crazy to leave New York because he’ll never be able to afford living there again. He tells the nay-sayers he never wants to live in New York again and closes his ears to them.
Step Seven: Approach to the Inner Most Cave
Long journey and preparation for the major challenge in the special world.
Flintstones:
Fred goes back to school to earn his high school diploma.
Groovy Journey:
Mr. Groovy improves his coding and database skills so that he can change careers in North Carolina. He continues to be an exemplary employee with the hope that he might be able to cash out all his built up comp time from his government job.
Step Eight: The Ordeal
Greatest personal challenge. Everything is on the line.
Flintstones:
Fred lands Rock Roll, a big movie star, as the main act for Wilma’s fundraiser show. Rock Roll is booked to perform his gold record, The Bedrock Twitch. Fred is stunned when he learns that Rock became a millionaire from singing and dancing to the song. When Rock becomes ill from eating pickled dodo bird eggs, the show must go on. And it does—with Fred filling in for Rock and lip syncing to his hit song, The Bedrock Twitch. (Contrary to the title of the video snippet below, the song and dance is referred to as The Bedrock Twitch.)
Groovy Journey:
The Groovies make final plans to leave New York and put their condo on the market for sale. Mr. Groovy worries that it may not sell fast—but it does. And he makes a profit of over $250K on the sale.
Step Nine: The Reward
The hero takes possession of the prize and becomes stronger.
Flintstones:
Fred and Barney begin rehearsing for a talent show to be held at the new Bedrock Bowl, where superstar Ann Margrock is scheduled to perform a concert. In a twist of fate, when Ann comes to town she stays with the Flintstones, unrecognized, and babysits Pebbles while the men rehearse. She helps Fred and Barney get on the show.
Groovy Journey:
Mr. Groovy’s government employer strikes a deal with him. Mr. Groovy is allowed to cash out all of his comp time in the form of paychecks that will continue for a year when he moves to North Carolina.
Step Ten: The Road Back
One minor test to drive the story to completion.
Flintstones:
Fred is sick and tired of being picked on at the quarry by his boss, Mr. Slate. He thinks Mr. Slate sips cocktails all day long and doesn’t have to work. Fred wishes he were the boss—and Gazoo grants his wish by making him boss for the day. Fred runs the quarry and finds out what it’s like to be in charge. He realizes that being the boss is not so easy.
Groovy Journey:
After moving to North Carolina Mr. Groovy needs to look for a job where he can put his new database and coding skills to good use. He hasn’t gone on a job interview in more than 20 years and is a bit nervous.
Step Eleven: The Resurrection
The hero has a final encounter with the danger. This is the climax of the story.
Flintstones:
Fred enters the Indianrockolis 500 race so that he can win money to fund the education of Pebbles, his daughter, and Barney’s son, Bamm Bamm. He enters the race under a false name, Goggles Paesano. Fred performs an amazing feat, riding his race car on the walls of the track. Fred loses the race on a technicality— but he earns $5,000 on a TV commercial for Flintrock Wheels.
Groovy Journey:
Mr. Groovy lines up two job interviews and received offers for both positions. He accepts the better of the two jobs. However, there’s a catch—the company’s Human Resources department takes an extraordinarily long time to finalize a new hire. Mr. Groovy grows frustrated but then finally, he’s given a start date.
Step Twelve: The Return
The hero returns home or continues the journey, bearing some type of treasure or power to change the world.
Flintstones:
A flood at the quarry forces Fred and Barney to take take their families on vacation. They decide to go camping at the “Shangri-La-Dee-Da”. Little do they know that an international boy scout jamboree is taking place there at the same time. Fred and Barney, who used to be scout masters, become the life of the party and revel in their story-telling. The boys are so taken with them that they later visit the families in Bedrock.
Groovy Journey:
Mr. Groovy enjoys his new job. He gets a promotion and stays with the company for nine years. He prepares for early retirement and begins a blog to document his journey and help others. Life is good.
Final Thoughts
[Mr. Groovy here. Okay, groovy freedomist, I got one more Flintstone video for you. Get a load of this one. Proof positive that everything wasn’t wine and roses for the Baby Boomers. You youngins have no idea how hard it was for children of the 50s and 60s to simply breathe. Nearly every adult smoked and there were no safe-lung zones. Have a great weekend. Peace.]
More FIRE Journeys
Anchor – Joe’s Why FIRE Is Such a Compelling Story.
Link 1 – Tom’s FIRE hero’s journey from being a young finance professional to his encore career, teaching at a university.
Link 2 – Jim’s Why Spiderman’s Path is Like the Journey to FIRE. Jim is going to retire early and move to Panama very soon.
Link 3 – Mr. Tako’s Darth Vader and The Path to FIRE. Apparently, Mr. Tako agrees with my son about Darth Vader.
Link 4 – Lazy Man and Money’s The Serenity of My FIRE Journey. My doppelganger on the East Coast. 🙂
Link 5 – Jason’s Want Your Life to be Movie Worthy? Achieve Financial Freedom! Head over to Winning Personal Finance and read all about it.
What about you? Do you want to join the chain? Check out Joe’s anchor post for instructions at the bottom.
Just come across your blog and laughed my way through this post with the Flintstones, which brought childhood memories flooding back. So thanks for that, I really mean that!
So you know, having just become on FIRE myself at 56 (still in the first few weeks and hopelessly optimistic) I’ll be following your blog.
Thanks, Doug. Just took a quick browse on your site and it looks good! Thanks for the mention there, too!
Congrats on your FIRE achievement and I’m glad you’re hopelessly optimistic. We’re coming up on three years and still optimistic ourselves. Pulling the plug on the 9 to 5 was the third best decision we ever made. (The first was getting married and the second was leaving New York.)
I haven’t thought about the Flintstones in ages. Love how your story parallels that of our dinosaur riding friends!
Thanks, Mrs. Wow. We’ve often felt like Fred and Wilma.
Man I miss the Flintstones. I used to dance to the Bedrock Twist on the living room floor until I was exhausted. Thanks for the memories!
Those are fun memories!
And the question continues…is it Twist or Twitch? Since the lyrics say “When you get an itch to do the ____” I think it must be twitch.
I had it wrong all those years!? That’s what’s wrong with me!!
Great work on this, Mrs. G! It takes me back to my childhood when I used to watch the Flintstones regularly. It was only on two nights a week back then.
Thanks for sharing your hero’s journey!
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Thanks, Gary.
I seem to recall watching the Flintstones after school. But maybe I’m remembering that incorrectly.
Another memory just jumped into my head. I had a Wilma Flintstone doll. I think Wilma’s hair was a wig, too. Like a vinyl slip on wig.
This was awesome!
I’m a huge fan of the Flintstones as a kid and you brought a lot of memories which came flooding back.
Very cool concept and I love how you tied your life to Fred’s. Have no clue who I would be similar to but now you got me thinking 🙂
Thanks, Xrayvsn. It was tough for me to come up with a character because I’m not heavily into action films. I even have trouble remember the plots of those I’ve seen recently and enjoyed, like Guardians of the Galaxy 1 and 2.
that’s really great work. that must have taken hours and hours to put together but worth it. that’ my era too, but the reruns in the early 70’s. i might have missed it, but are you both finished with w2 work now? we’re easing into it. mrs. me works 14 hours a week or so but she’s a little older. getting out of ny seems like a great idea whenever i think about it. even buffalo is going crazy.
y’all get my gold medal for the term “ham and eggers” i love that phrase.
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I started the post back in April and then got waylaid with selling our house, the move, etc. I finally got back to it a few weeks ago. It took some time weaving different story lines in and trying not to change up the chronology too much.
We both quit our W2 jobs on the same date in October, 2016.
Ham and eggers was a phrase Mr. Groovy’s grandfather used a lot. It got passed on to him.
Getting out of NY was the best move we ever made. Financially it was a no-brainer but I think it saved my mental health too.
What a great “hero” story. It takes me back to my childhood, when we used to drive by picking up the car with our hands and running our feet on the ground! A “page right out of his-tor-y”. Impressive story telling. Thanks for taking me down memory lane and then reminding me with the Winston commercial that it wasn’t all rainbows and butterflies either.
Thanks, Susan. It was certainly one of my favorite TV shows before I grew old enough to get into “Dark Shadows.” I bet you remember good old Barnabas Collins too. (I probably wasn’t really old enough to watch it but mom wasn’t home after school.)
A classic journey and a big YABBA-DABBA-DO for you too. Now I won’t be able to get the theme song out of my head all weekend. Thanks for including my link and I will get you linked up on my post straight away. Tom
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Thank YOU Tom. And I can’t get the Ann Margrock song out of my head “Oh, I ain’t gonna be your fool no more,”🎶🎶🎶🎶
Awesome post. Funny you should mention the Flinstones. Last night I was listening to the radio and heard there is a new Flinstone Comics (came out in 2016) that is supposedly really really good. Fred is just a guy who hates his job and has a mean boss who is trying to find a way out. The author says he also explores how the dinosaurs must feel, always being used as an appliance. I think both need to work towards fire.
That commercial is nuts. It is easy to forget how far we have all come.
I never heard of that comic. I’ll have to look for it, thanks!
As a kid I was fascinated with the dinosaurs being used as an appliance. If only a can opener had talked to me! I would have been ecstatic. Yes, FIRE is for dinosaurs too!
Haha, well done – I love it! You definitely had to put a lot of work into this one… nice job!
More importantly, I had forgotten about the Great Gazoo. Those were some of the funnier episodes – the one with the doubles of Fred and Barney that could only say “Yes, yes, yes” and “No, no, no.”
So not only did you come up with a fun post, but you made me reminisce about some great cartoons from back in the day. 🙂
— Jim
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Thanks, Jim. I vaguely remember the “Yes, yes, yes” and “No, no, no” episode. I’ve gotta go YouTube that one.
I liked Gazoo too but Mr. Groovy and I were wondering if The Flintstones jumped the shark soon after his introduction. Don’t get me wrong, I still liked ALL of the episodes. But the Gazoo story line seemed to mimic the way a TV series (with humans) would introduce a funky character to revive the show.
Haha, there’s no doubt that was the moment of jumping the shark… but I still love it! 😉
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tNF8A_kjZY
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Thanks for the link! So funny!
Awesome journey ya’ll.
The cigarettes and chauvinism in that last clip remind me a lot of my father.
Thanks, Brian — and nice to “see” you. I hope the summer season has been good to you.
Thanks for a Groovy ride back through my (smoke-filled) childhood! My mom still can’t believe they used to sit around the kitchen table (her “coffee-klatsch”) and fill the kitchen with smoke while we played! She says – “HOW STUPID WERE WE?”
Of this series, this is my favorite! Love all the connections – and you guys too 😉
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Thanks, Vicki. It was so much fun going through some of the clips of these episodes. How much of it was really written for adults? The episodes weren’t half as funny to us as kids.
Wow, seen a lot of episodes in my childhood, but never realized the message. Almost fell in love again with them, why was it necessary to ruin it by the last video? 🙂
Anyway, awesome post and awesome journey. You know the everyday heroes are best of all 😉
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The Flintstones, The Honeymooners, and even I Love Lucy to an extent have similar messages.
Mr. Groovy added that last bit and I made sure he put his name on it. He has memories of car trips where he and his siblings couldn’t breathe due to his parents’ cigarette smoke.
These stories are so much fun. How many hours of the Flintstones did you watch before you hit publish?
I keep your geoarbitrage story in the back of my mind all the time. NJ is crazy expensive and while were not ready to move in the near future, I’m all ready to use your story to convince my wife when the right time comes.
Thanks for linking back to my freedom story as well!
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A lot! Especially the musical ones. It was so funny but when we watched “The Twitch” for the first time (or re-watched, I should say) I actually remembered the bird bit before it happened. That’s the bird with the beak playing the record (some of the youngins won’t know what a record is) that falls asleep and makes the song “skip”.