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OK on to today’s post. You asked for it; you got it. Well, actually, Joe Udo from Retire by 40 asked for it. He requested a post with tips on how to choose a realtor, and our dear friend Laurie Blank reached out to answer the call.ย
Laurie is a realtor in the St. Paul/Minneapolis area who has a passion for helping people fulfill their home buying and selling dreams. She is also a freelance writer and former blog owner who has an obsession for all things personal finance.ย ย
Take it away, Laurie!
So, youโre buying or selling your house. If you do it right youโll use a licensed real estate agent. After all, real estate agents (or realtors, as theyโre called when theyโre members of the National Association of Realtors) have the know-how and the inside scoop on helping you accomplish your home buying and home selling goals, right?
Maybe, maybe not. Iโve gotten screwed by realtors before and Iโm sure that if you havenโt, you know someone who has.
As a home buyer or seller, choosing a real estate agent is an important move. After all, if youโre selling your home youโre going to be paying your agent a hefty chunk of changeโupwards of 10% in many cases.
And in some states buyers pay agents too, but even if youโre not paying your agent to find you a house, you want to be sure he or she will act in your best interest since youโre charging them with finding the place youโll live inโprobably for quite some time.
How do you know if the agent youโre choosing will be worth what youโre paying him? Here are some things to think about before you make your decision.
Integrity Should Be a Top Consideration
Integrity is important in any profession, but when youโre dealing with helping someone sell or buy their home itโs a top-value trait.
In real estate licensing classes, integrity, character and honesty are pounded into attendeesโ heads over and over again. Itโs an absolute requirement in order to gain and keep your license and real estate agents who intentionally act without it can be fined or lose their license.
Yet, with five years of mortgage banking experience and my new career as a realtor, Iโve come across more underhanded things than I care to admit.
In fact, if Iโd known more about ethics requirements of real estate agents when we bought our last house I probably couldโve gotten our agentโs licensed revoked.
People are selfish. Not always, but often. And when thereโs several thousand dollars on the line people can get greedy.
This is why I suggest integrity as the top priority checkpoint you look for when choosing a realtor.
How do you know if a real estate agent has integrity? Iโd say start by asking. Say โIโm looking for an agent whose integrity is a top priority. How important is integrity to you?โ
If you donโt want to ask that question directly, simply listen to what the agent is saying during the interview process. Listen for verbal catchphrases that give a hint to his or her characterโand take them seriously.
If an agent says โIโll do whatever it takes to sell your houseโ, that would be a red flag for me unless they quantified it with a statement of integrity or unless they talked about a specific plan that was ethical.
You need to be able to trust your agent to do whatโs right, even in the face of temptation or potentially losing a sale.
Experience Isnโt Necessarily Important
On some level experience matters, however newer agents sometimes have advantages that more experienced agents donโt, such as:
- A burning desire to succeed since their career is so new
- The newest and most updated training techniques and knowledge of laws
- A (likely) not terribly long client list that gives them more time to focus on you
Whatโs more important as you interview agents is not necessarily their experience, but what kind of a support system they have behind them and how willing they are to use that support system to get what they need to get to do the best job for you.
If youโre interviewing a new agent, but theyโre not afraid to admit they donโt know everything and go directly to their manager or mentor to get immediate answers and support, youโll probably find their eagerness trumps any lack of experience.
Interview at Least Three Agents
I know itโs cumbersome, but as an agent myself I feel itโs important to interview a few different realtors unless you know one directly that youโre certain will do a good job for you.
Why? Because if youโve only ever tasted Chicken Noodle Soup, how do you know you wonโt fall in love with Wild Rice Soup or Clam Chowder and have an everlasting relationship with it?
Without interviewing multiple realtors you canโt really get an idea of whatโs out there and who offers what types of services.
It would be like only test driving one car before you buy. Get references from loved ones regarding realtors they know and interview at least twoโpreferably three.
Again, you can disregard this situation if you know your Uncle Joe is a successful realtor and will do an upstanding job for you because you know his character and his work ethic, but if you donโt know anyone personally, Iโd suggest the interview route.
Ask About Their Plan for Selling Your House (or Finding You a Home to Buy)
Every good agent will have a marketing plan for selling your house or finding you a home to buy, and they should be able to explain that plan to you in detail. Youโll want to know they’ll give detailed care and consideration to your situation.
Ask if Theyโre Knowledgeable About Selling (or Buying) Your Type of Property
All real estate agents are trained first and foremost in buying and selling residential homes because thatโs what 80-90% of agents end up doing.
However, if youโre buying or selling a rental property or a commercial property, youโre going to have a much narrower list of trained realtors to choose from. Iโd think twice about having a residential agent work with you on commercial or rental properties unless theyโve been adequately trained.
Similarly, Iโd think twice about hiring an agent who specializes in commercial properties to help you buy or sell your home, unless they can show you they know a lot about your market as well.
Ask About References
Iโd consider asking for references too as you decide on an agent. If your agent is newer and doesnโt have any references yet donโt be afraid to use them if they meet the other suggested qualifications here, but feel free to ask for character references.
Go with Your Gut
Not all of you may agree with this tip, and if youโve learned over the years your gut isnโt reliable, Iโd say you can throw this tip out the window.
However, Iโm a firm believer that a lot of bad decisions could have been avoided if people would have just gone with their gut.
How many times have you fell into a bad situation and said to yourself โI knew better. I felt in my gut like I should haveโฆโฆ.โ
When youโre interviewing agents, you may find yourself in a situation where one says all the right things, but you just donโt feel right about him or her.
Listen to your instincts and go with the one you feel best about, especially if your gut has proven right in the past.
Buying and selling a home is a big deal, and youโll want to be represented properly and ethically.
Mr. Groovy here. Such great advice. Laurie really nailed it. And I think she coached Mrs. Groovy because Mrs. Groovy followed these tips to a tee and she got us a cracker jack realtor. So thank you, Laurie. I’m sure these 7 tips will help many future home sellers and buyers.
Okay, groovy freedomist, that’s almost a wrap for this week. Just one more thing. In addition to a kick-ass guest post, we also have another episode of Talking Trash with Mr. Groovy. And you thought life couldn’t get any better! Enjoy.

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