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The year is 1986. For one recent college graduate, it’s the best of times. For another recent college graduate, it’s the worst of times.
Let’s now look at some key stats for these recent college graduatesโone who happens to be me, and the other who happens to be my cousin.
| Me | Cousin | |
|---|---|---|
| Family Socioeconomic Status | Middle Class (My dad was a cop and my mom was a medical records clerk.) | Middle Class (My cousin’s mom was a teacher and I don’t remember what her father did. I have a vague recollection that he was a machinist in a tool and die factory.) |
| SAT Score (Math + Verbal) | 1100? (1080 sounds right, but I’m also remembering 1120.) | 1500? (For some reason I’m remembering 1520. All I know for sure is that she got over 1500.) |
| College | Buffalo University | Dartmouth |
| College Selectivity | Moderately Selective. (When I got accepted to UB in 1979, it was definitely a third tier school. It didn’t come close to the Ivies and the Public Ivies in terms of academics and prestige.) | Super Selective. (Easily one of the top 50 colleges in America.) |
| Freshman Year | 1979 | 1978 |
| Major | Sociology | Finance? (Not exactly sure what my cousin majored in. All I know is that she got her BA and MBA in five years.) |
| Income in 1986 | $17,000 | $100,000? (Can’t say for sure what my cousin’s income was back in 1986. I do remember Groovy Mom telling me that she was making over six figures between salary and bonus.) |
When I look at these key stats from way back when, I see the income inequality between my cousin and me and I weep. What the heck happened? Why was my guardian angel, the vaunted patriarchy, so cruel to me and so kind to her? She did have female plumbing, after all. And she did identify as a female. Shouldn’t those key stats be reversed, with me having the more impressive CV?
Here’s a shocking truth that I don’t see bandied about very often: sometimes income inequality is the epitome of fairness and justice.
There’s a reason why my cousin was making big bucks and I wasn’t. There’s a reason why she was crunching numbers for a high-powered financial firm in Boston and I was scraping dead animals off the road for a rinky-dink highway department on Long Island. She was smarter, more skilled, and more driven. In short, she had way more to offer mankind than I did (in an economic sense, of course). Not too many people have the brains to handle big-time finance. Any well-manicured ape can scrape dead animals off the road.
In this post, then, I rise in defense of income inequality (how’s that for pomposity!). Income inequality is merely a messengerโan economic scorecard, if you will. Person A makes more than Person B, and Person B makes more than Person C. Sometimes income inequality is the result of artificial bias. The government blocks Person B and Person C from competing against Person A and Person A takes advantage of his ill-gotten monopoly. But more often than not, income inequality is the result of impartiality. My cousin got more because she was more. It’s as simple as that.
Note to anyone who is unhappy with his or her current income: If you want more, become more. Hone your skills, burnish your attitude, and sharpen your driveโgive and you will be given unto. “The system” isn’t nearly as “rigged” as you suppose. There’s a crapload of cosmic justice out there.
Groovy Ranch Update
We’re moving into the home stretch for Groovy Ranch. The cabinets and the screened-in porch are done. Next week the measurements for our quartz countertops will be taken. As Mrs. Groovy is wont to say, “This sh*t is getting real.” Here’s a picture of the kitchen.

Here’s a picture of the built-ins that flank our shiplap fireplace.

And here’s a picture of the completed screened-in porch.

Final Thoughts
Okay, groovy freedomist, that’s all I got. My virtual tour to promote my opus is rolling along. This week my interview with “The Girls” (J and Gwen from Fire Drill Podcast) came out. Check it out when you get a chance. And have a super groovy weekend. Peace.

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